Stop expecting from others



               Stop expecting from others

 If someone really does not have time but still cares for his family and friends, if he still makes time to text, call and visits you often. So it means you're the luckiest person because you have a gem who cares for you but if you see and ignore his love and care for you and you often did this act by ignoring to his texts or calls,

 So the person who's showing his love and care should not ruin his happiness to seek your attention over them, A person who loves you should leave that matter to the court of Allah. Everytime he asks you with his clear heart about the problem you didn't able to reply will make him feel more bad and guilty, only for just he cares for you, to make you feel accompanied and happy, nothing else. 

 Don't make anyone feel lonely with your act, spread love and expect nothing in return. Feel satisfied of the deeds you did for good, as you know if you do good, good will come back to you so it is called "Karma". If a loved one didn't revenge you back but left his matter on to Allah even if he forgives you, Be ready to serve then because Karma will chase you in return.

 Same point I am writing for a person who loves his family and friends should not expect anything in return. Allah will make them realize some day but it will be too late to apologize.

 Stay positive, Be calm, Love yourself and stop expecting the love from a friend or a family member who ignored you but you always loved no matter what.

In my case I cannot ignore anyone, it feels really bad even if I tried to think but the other should also realize about the love you have for them. Sometimes just for your self-respect you have to do the way they are doing, don't make them realize but Allah will.

The most important part to live a good life is to follow the instructions of Allah. To obey the teachings of our 

Prophet "Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم" 

And to follow what your parents have taught. It's true that every way of parenting is different in every way, the way parent brought up their child is different from the other family. May be when they were in their early stage, they didnot get that positive instructions from their parents or may be some other personal issues were there. They are just doing what their parents have instructed but obviously I am not taunting anyone but when I see any situation someone is going through I make myself realize if I was be treated like that what will be my choice, Anyhow we need to understand the point that Every parenting is different from the other in every way, Just to break the chain of negative mindset, unethical attitude or may be by mistake of us what I thought to write the words to make people aware that if any lovedones around you is getting hurt by such behaviors.

Remember,

A man without ethics is a wild beast loosed upon this world.

"Ethics is knowing the difference between what you have the right to do and what things are right to do".

Haqooq Ul Ibaad is the duty we owe to humanity and there are rights of every soul on another.

Dedicated to all those who have gone through this situation.

 

                                     Written By Samia Hasan

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